In the dating arena, being a pickup artist tends to be a strong advantage. It is a life hack for single men and women. According to professionals, mastering the game is a key to becoming a confident and attractive a conversationalist that many people will find irresistible. It’s a mind game, and it is 100% learn-able. You can win if you play by the rules. We have some game-changing guidelines for all the singles out there to rock the next night out. Become a master of the pickup artist game.
3 Ways Singles Can Become The Ultimate Pickup Artist
Dress Like the Porn Star Or Playboy You Are
Breaking news! When you dress nicely, people treat you with more respect. Dressing nicely is a sign that you respect yourself, so pull up your baggy pants and change out of your workout clothes for god sake. People actually care about how you present yourself, so add some swagger to your wardrobe. Shop affordable at H&M or Forever 21. You can even find nice clothes at the thrift store. It doesn’t take much to dress nice, there is always a way. If you want sultry glances, it is important that you dress and portray yourself as a sex symbol with class. Dress sexy, and be classy, or people will just look at you like you are a tool or a slut. We don’t want that. Despite what your body shape is like, if you wear a custom fit tailored outfit, you will make a statement. In addition, go light with the perfume. It should be strong enough to the point where it is a subtle smell. You want to be ahead of the curve, so dress nice. Get a close shave, new haircut, and go on a shopping spree. Swagger with confidence wins every-time.
Walk with Swagger
Before you can talk the talk, you need to walk the walk. How you walk and carry yourself says everything about you. Keep your head up, and walk tall with confidence. Walk like you are the Queen or King of the world, and do it with personal power that comes from within – we are not talking about having an ego here. A truly classy person carries themselves confidently and strides with power. Walk the walk, then you can talk the talk. You will experience more confidence when you do start to walk intentionally with confidence. A pick up artist has swagger. Walk and talk what you got.
Start the Conversation with an Interesting Line
The more mysterious you are, the more attractive people will find you. In conversation, be interested, not interesting. Confidently approach a person you are attracted to or have interest in. Start by asking the person questions using the FORD formula:
Family Info
Occupation
Relationship Status
Dream
Get the other person talking, and you will be good. Leave them hanging. Make sure you actually have something going on for yourself, like fitness, a freelance business, and a great group of friends to backup things you say. If you want someone who’s got it going on, you’ve got to have it going on. It goes hand in hand with your swagger persona. Rock what you got. Successfully play the game of being a pickup artist.
Summary
The following rules will allow any single to become more artistic and crafted as a pickup artist. Be the charmer you aspire to be, and let out your inner porn star or playboy. Anyone can be sexy and attractive, it is all a mind game. Learn it, play it well, and rock your next night out. Become the ultimate pickup artist and develop a winner’s mindset. Daily practice will make you better at being a PUA every day. Get out there and be a confident pick up artist today singles!
Securely yours,
Danielle
Views expressed in this article are the author’s opinions and do not necessarily reflect the views of Secure Single. It is intended for informational and educational purposes only. It is not investment or financial advice. James Bollen is the author of Thriving Solo: How to Flourish and Live Your Perfect Life (Without A Soulmate). Now available in paperback and for the Kindle on Amazon. Subscribe to Secure Single’s Substack for free!
