As everything continues to move online, the world’s oldest profession has moved from the streets to online private rooms. Why go to a strip club when you can access everything online today? There is now a simping problem. There may even be a simping epidemic.

 

Ia There A Simping Problem Today?

 

 

What Is Simping?

 

Simping is slang for when men become infatuated with women and start spending money on them. When it comes to online, Urban Dictionary defines simping as “when you like women on the internet. The more you like women on the internet, the simpier it is.” With the growth of the internet and cam sites, simping online has become a problem. People will spend their time and money online with a camgirl. Cam sites have male and female models or creators, but simps are usually men.

 

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Is There A Simping Problem? 

 

OnlyFans 

 

In 2020, OnlyFans was valued at $1.2 billion. OnlyFans is the most well-known of the camming sites. It exploded in 2020. OnlyFans is the most well-known for adult models. The models, or content creators, on OnlyFans, made a total of $3.86 billion on the platform.

 

Repackaging The Oldest Profession For The Modern Age 

 

OnlyFans, and other camming sites, are merely a repackaging of the oldest profession for the modern age. It used to be done at hotels or brothels. Now it is done online. Camgirls can now build a following around them on their camming platform. They can sell premium content (usually pictures or videos). They can even build a following around them on social media. There have been, and there always will be, simps.

 

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How Does Simping Affect Simps? 

 

There are three main ways in which simping can affect you if you are a simp.

 

Time 

 

You will spend more time online with your favorite camgirl rather than being productive. A simp will waste their time on different camming sites rather than finding ways to be productive with their time.

 

Money 

 

You will find yourself spending money on camgirls. That is fine if you have the discretionary income to drop money like this and view it as a form of casual entertainment. But it is up to you since it is your money. The money could be directed towards more productive uses than trying to please a woman online.

 

Relationships 

 

The job of camgirls is to make money for the camming site they work for. They then receive a certain amount or percentage from the camming site for being on the platform and getting users to send them tips, purchase photos or videos, or have a private with a camgirl for which they charge per minute. This is how the camgirl makes money.

 

Knowing that is how they make their money, do you think they are interested in having a relationship with a user? You are just another paying simp. You could instead make relationships with people where you live instead of with someone online pretending to be your friend so that you will continue to give them money.

 

 

5 Solutions To Stop Simping (If You’re A Simp) 

 

If you have a problem with being a simp, here are five ways to stop being a simp while improving your life.

 

Self-Discipline 

 

You can learn self-discipline. Rather than spending time on camming sites, you can be disciplined by working to stop visiting those types of sites. You can then begin to apply self-discipline to other areas of your life. You can start to develop a consistent sleep schedule. You can begin to get up at a particular time or even earlier to be more productive. You can start to achieve your life goals when you consistently practice self-discipline.

 

Time Management 

 

You can learn time management skills. Basic time management skills include making a to-do list of tasks you must complete. You can then finish them by a set final date. Give yourself a minimum of tasks to complete each day. The usual recommendation is between three to five, depending on how much time each task will take to complete. You can then manage your tasks and goals according to the length of time, from short-term to long-term goals. In the age of social media and distractions, another way to save time is to limit your time on social media platforms or stop using them.

 

Manage Money 

 

You can begin to understand the basics of money and how to manage it. You can start by avoiding going into debt and living below your means. You can follow a budget. The 50/30/20 budget is a good place to start. Once you build up enough money in your savings account, you can begin investing money into the stock market, real estate, or an online business.  You can find creative ways to build passive income streams. You want to find ways to make your money work for you instead of always working for your money.

 

Make Friends 

 

You can make friends in real life instead of having everything being online. You could find friends by joining Meetup groups in your area. You could meet people at places you regularly visit in your town or city. You could also make friends by meeting people at networking events, local churches, farmers’ markets, or at your gym.

 

Exercise 

 

You can exercise regularly. That could mean going for a walk or going to the gym. Regular exercise will help you to look and feel better. You can get exercise by yourself or with friends.

 

Conclusion 

 

Camming sites like OnlyFans are merely repackaging the world’s oldest profession for the twenty-first century, where everything is now online. It has driven men online to become simps to camgirls.

Views expressed in this article are the author’s opinions and do not necessarily reflect the views of Secure Single. It is intended for informational and educational purposes only. It is not investment or financial advice. James Bollen is the author of Thriving Solo: How to Flourish and Live Your Perfect Life (Without A Soulmate). Now available in paperback and for the Kindle on Amazon. Subscribe to Secure Single’s Substack for free!
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James Bollen is the Founder and President of Secure Single. He is an entrepreneur and a content creator with the goal of helping all different types of singles to learn to thrive as a single person.
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