I’m going to start with the basic building blocks to get you started to be part of the tribe of single women who feel passionate and powerful.
5 Single Women Empowerment Skills
Self-Regulation
There may have been times in your life when you thought you needed a man to feel better. Maybe you were with a guy and if you felt bad a hug, a smile or even being angry at him made you feel better.
It’s possible to feel better on your own too. You can learn to self-soothe yourself with a couple tips.
Learning to self-regulate your emotions are a crucial part of being a strong independent single woman who doesn’t need a man. When your emotions are in charge of you, it makes your life much harder. You can learn to manage your emotions with a little know-how.
According to Psychology Today awareness of the function and biology of your emotions can help you understand your feelings. Being aware of your emotions is a stepping stone for you to become the master of your to manage them.
If you can learn to process your emotions, you will be ahead of many women out there. Calming yourself down when you’re anxious or upset and cheering yourself up if you’re feeling down in the dumps— Are two of the most important skills Single Women can learn to empower themselves.
Time Management Is One Of The Critical Skills Single Women Can Learn To Empower Themselves
If you spend hours of your day looking at Grumpy Cat memes on Facebook instead of focusing on things that are making you more successful, focused, and satisfied in your life— You’re doing yourself a disservice.
Making A List Of Important Tasks Every Day Is Good For Single Women Empowerment
There’s nothing much more gratifying than completing things that will make you feel more successful every day.
Ask yourself a few questions about your daily to-do list.
- Which task will help me feel secure about my future?
- Which things make me feel good about myself?
- How can I make more money?
- Is this task really important?
- Am I holding myself back by making this task important?
Prioritize your list from most important to least important. Cross off each item when you’re finished. Then pat yourself on the back at the end of every day for the things you “did” accomplish. instead of beating yourself up for the things you didn’t get to finish.
Another Way For Single Women To Not Need A Man Is To Be Good To Yourself
When you’re single it’s crucial to talk nicely to yourself. Think about the things that go on inside your head that make you feel bad about yourself. Switch them to something that feels better! When you speak kindly inside your mind you will feel more confident and powerful.
Making Extra Cash Is Good For Single Women’s Empowerment
Figure out a way to save some cash to invest, or pamper yourself for all the things you’ve finished on your to-do list. Sometimes it can be hard to make ends meet as a single woman. Making a little extra money can make you feel like “I can” instead of “I can’t.”
I’ve met women who stayed in unhealthy relationships because they didn’t think they could do it without financial support from their boyfriend or husband.
So learning how to use the internet to make extra cash is a great way to feel more empowered. Watch some tutorials and learn how to sell some things on eBay, Etsy, Amazon, or Facebook marketplace. You can also clean out your garage or closet and post things you don’t need or love on Craigslist.
If you’ve always wanted to be a writer, create a WordPress blog and research how to monetize your website. Connect Google AdWords to your blog and bring in some green while you sleep.
Managing your time, saving some money for a rainy day and noticing how these things make you feel will make you feel like you can do it alone— And you might actually enjoy going solo!
Lots of Love,
Dina Colada
