The holiday season can be a rough time of the year. It is a time of travel. It is a time of seeing and talking to those family members or old friends that you only see one time a year. The holidays are busy with baking, cooking, and eating with family and relatives. If you are in a romantic relationship, then you will have to meet all of your significant other’s family members eventually during this season. The holidays, even as a single person can be tiring, that is why Secure Single has compiled a list of ten thoughts on being single during the holidays:

  1. Be confident in your independence as a single person! Don’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend? So what! Celebrate your singlehood or singleness. Be a secure single!
  2.  Celebrate the holidays and bring in the New Year exactly how you wish without having to compromise by negotiating with a significant other!
  3.  You don’t have to visit your boyfriend or girlfriends family over the holidays. Hang out with your favorite friends and don’t worry about going out during the holiday season to do the things that you want to do!
  4. Spoil yourself by getting exactly what you want for Christmas!
  5. Have fun around the mistletoe at holiday parties since you don’t have a significant other.
  6. Have fun! Do crazy things in a Santa Morphsuit in your city or your favorite bar. Have a friend who wants to join you? Be a Santa and Elf duo! You can purchase the morphsuits here:
  7. Don’t want to travel home or to a significant other’s place during the holidays? You don’t have to because you are single and not tied down in a romantic relationship!
  8. You are responsible for your own happiness. Another person cannot help you find what makes you truly happy since they are not you!
  9. You don’t have to decorate for the holidays if you don’t want to.
  10. You don’t have to answer questions about your current relationship, how things are going, where you see it going, and if he/she is ‘the One’ since you are single.
Views expressed in this article are the author’s opinions and do not necessarily reflect the views of Secure Single. It is intended for informational and educational purposes only. It is not investment or financial advice. James Bollen is the author of Thriving Solo: How to Flourish and Live Your Perfect Life (Without A Soulmate). Now available in paperback and for the Kindle on Amazon. Subscribe to Secure Single’s Substack for free!
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James Bollen is the Founder and President of Secure Single. He is an entrepreneur and a content creator with the goal of helping all different types of singles to learn to thrive as a single person.
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