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There are some ladies out there who don’t want to deal with friends, let alone a boyfriend. But even if you’re a single woman you’ve still got these . . . You know, urges. And you want to satisfy them healthily and with a man.


Sometimes you want to get your freak on and find some hot booty

If you find the right person, sex can be great! But if there’s no chemistry, or he’s clueless— well, that’s a different nightmarish story that you’ll want to forget. So how can you find a guy and get some good lovin’ even if you don’t want a boyfriend or a partner? It’s better to find one in person.

If you’re a woman, it’s pretty darn easy to find a man who is willing to satisfy (or at least give it some sort of effort) your deepest desires. You’ve first got to get your flirt on


There are two ways for a woman to find some hot booty

  • Path one: Leave the house (that’s a start)
  • Path two:  Stay inside and get on Tinder

The first path will take a little more effort on your part

Path two of finding some action is what I’m going to cover in this article. You’ll have to put in a bit of time, but it will be worth it because you can see all the men’s body language.

You will, however, have to get out of your pink and white polka dotted bathrobe and push Binky, the cat off your lap. You’ll have to brush your teeth and your hair (you could actually skip this, but I don’t suggest it) and put some clothes on.

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If you’re a single woman and want to get a super hot guy, I would suggest putting on makeup and some sexy clothes too

We’re talking low cut tops, push-up bras, and heels that aren’t made for walking. They’re usually just collecting dust on the top shelf in your closet. They do serve a purpose, and I’m glad you have an excellent selection to choose from. But don’t worry you won’t do much walking anyway.  

The second step of the second path is to go to a local pub, club or even a coffee shop. But we know the club is your best bet. Because people are dancing and drinking. But we all know why they’re really there. They want to meet someone for at least one night.


Grab a sex-on-the-beach, a Sprite or mocktail if you’re a non-drinker

You don’t even have to get on the dance floor. You can literally sit your butt at the bar and simply look pretty. There is hardly any effort involved. When you sit down, make sure there’s an empty seat beside you.


The next step is all in the eyes

So if you stay put the magic of this seduction is to make eye contact with the guy that catches your eye. You’ve got to look at him for a few seconds (which will most likely feel like an eternity). Then look at him again.


As the old saying goes, third time’s a charm

Then if you want casual sex, you’ve got to look at him again and this time put on your most coy smile.


Getting the attention of a man is pretty easy, really if you know some basic flirting moves

Smile. Make eye contact. Flip your hair. Run your fingers down your neck as you do.

Look at him. You know, the basics. Men aren’t that complicated when it comes to attracting them into your world. If he’s a little shy, you can also look at him then look at the empty seat next to you. Flirting can not only help your love life. Getting your flirt on can also help you in business.


Make sure you make direct eye contact with him and then look directly at the chair

Even the shyest guy can’t resist this move. He’ll know you’re interested, and now your night has suddenly gotten more interesting. I hope you’ve enjoyed these fun and flirty moves and you get precisely what you want tonight. Please leave any comments below if you enjoyed this article! 

Lots of Love,

Dina Colada


Dina Colada is a contributing author at Secure Single LLC. You can connect with her at for loads of dating advice and profile makeovers or on Instagram.


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Dina has been mostly single for much of her adult life with lots of dating in between some short, yet growth-centered relationships. She has devoted most of her time to helping singles thrive while on the path to love. She is multi-passionate and loves to connect with other entrepreneurs— Especially ones that are single!
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